I hold people accountable. People come to me because they want that tension, they want someone to make sure that they do what they say they are going to do. They want a context to get things done. So I have one group member that is constantly impressing me with her level of commitment. She is a go-getter, she makes a great living, she is a caring friend and family member, she gives back to her community, she’s focused on health, she is an AMAZING person. So why am I writing about her today…because she is too sick to make our meeting today so instead she emailed in her commitments, what she got done and what she didn’t. I thought to myself, when we are sick and tired we can make all kinds of excuses, but here she is in bed emailing in her commitments allowing herself to be held accountable. I’m impressed.